With or without you
I was seeing my girlfriend for 4 years. She lived in Barnsley, me in Sunderland. I eventually managed to get a job in Barnsley and also a flat sorted out. On my 30th birthday, I said good bye to my girlfriend as she was travelling back to Barnsley herself, as I had packed a van with all my belongings to move my stuff into the new flat. The next day I was starting work with a new job in Barnsley. Anyway about 5 minutes before I left Sunderland for the drive to my new life, I got a call from my girlfriend telling me that she had had 5 affairs in the time that we were going out, and was pregnant to the windsurfing instructor she had met on our holiday to Mexico.
I had left my job to move to be with her, and also sold my flat in Sunderland. So I decided to see through the move and new job, without my now ex-girlfriend.
Tom Keene, 37, United Kingdom
